Wednesday, September 24, 2008

The Yukkie Handbag

I recently received this as an email and thought it was so important, I decided to share it with everyone.

We carry anti-bacterial jell for our hands; wipes for our children; disposable place mats for public restaurant tables. So why is it that when it comes to our purse, unless it’s wet, we pay no attention to where it sits? We are constantly transferring “yuk” from one spot to another, and the worst yet is we bring it home.

The Yukkie Handbag
(author unknown)

Mom got so upset when guests came in the door and plopped their handbags down on the counter where she was cooking or setting up food. She always said that handbags are really dirty, because of where they have been. It's something just about every woman carries with them. While we may know what's inside our handbags, do you have any idea what's on the outside? Women carry handbags everywhere; from the office to public toilets to the floor of the car. Most women won't be caught without their handbags, but did you ever stop to think about where your handbag goes during the day.

'I drive a school bus, so my handbag has been on the floor of the bus a lot,' says one woman. 'On the floor of my car, and in toilets.' 'I put my handbag in grocery shopping carts and on the floor of the toilet,' says another woman 'and of course in my home which should be clean.'

We decided to find out if handbags harbor lots of bacteria. We learned how to test them at Nelson Laboratories in Salt Lake, UT and then we set out to test the average woman's handbag. Most women told us they didn't stop to think about what was on the bottom of their handbag. Most said at home they usually set their handbags on top of kitchen tables and counters where food is prepared. Most of the ladies we talked to told us they wouldn't be surprised if their handbags were at least a little bit dirty. It turns out handbags are so surprisingly dirty, even the microbiologist who tested them was shocked. Microbiologist Amy Karen of Nelson Labs says nearly all of the handbags tested were not only high in bacteria, but high in harmful kinds of bacteria. Pseudomonas can cause eye infections, staphylococcus aurous can cause serious skin infections, and salmonella and e-coli found on the handbags could make people very sick. In one sampling, four of five handbags tested positive for salmonella, and that's not the worst of it. 'There is fecal contamination on the handbags' says Amy. Leather or vinyl handbags tended to be cleaner than cloth handbags, and lifestyle seemed to play a role.

People with kids tended to have dirtier handbags than those without, with one exception. The handbag of one single woman who frequented nightclubs had one of the worst contaminations of all . 'Some type of feces, or possibly vomit' says Amy. So the moral of this story is that your handbag won't kill you, but it does have the potential to make you very sick if you keep it on places where you eat. Use hooks to hang your handbag at home and in toilets, and don't put it on your desk, a restaurant table, or on your kitchen countertop. Experts say you should think of your handbag the same way you would a pair of shoes. 'If you think about putting a pair of shoes onto your countertops, that's the same thing you're doing when you put your handbag on the countertops'. Your handbag has gone where individuals before you have sneezed, coughed, spat, urinated, emptied bowels. Do you really want to bring that home with you? The microbiologists at Nelson also said cleaning a handbag will help. Wash cloth handbags and use leather cleaner to clean the bottom of leather handbags. THIS IS WORTH SHARING!!! AND MEN PLEASE PASS THIS ON TO YOUR WIVES, GIRLFRIENDS AND DAUGHTERS!

Shared with you by Cindy Penkoff owner/author www.girlfriendgeneration.com

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Inspiring 10 Year Old

I’ve been wondering what I would do to truly celebrate my sons 10th birthday. I could sit down and list all the amazing things he has done in the past; tell everyone how smart he is or maybe brag about his ability to make friends with anyone while the entire time making them feel like they are the most important person in the room. Do I sound proud? I am. But that is not what this article is about.
Jeffrey has many passions. One of the most important is his commitment to the American Cancer Society. Last year he helped our team of walkers raise almost $8000. He stayed and walked all night with our team and instead of being tired and complaining about how much work it was, he was excited and proud and ready to do it again. If you are one of the few people that does NOT know Jeffrey then you must understand that he has CP and “walking” is one of the most exhausting things that he does every day. He has been asking for the past 5 mths how soon we can start raising money for the walk again. Talk about enthusiasm.
About 2 years ago, Jeffrey discovered Locks for Love. This is an organization that collects human hair from donors and makes beautiful wigs for patients that lose their hair due to treatment. He thought this was a great thing but wasn’t sure he could be patient enough to grow out his hair as it must be at least 10 inches long. He took a long time to think about it, discuss it and really search his soul. About 2 months ago he made his decision.
He sat down in the kitchen to get a haircut and said “just cut the bangs and around the ears mom”. This was unusual as this was about the time we started to give him a buzz cut for the warmer weather. “I decided to grow it out mom. I’m going to donate it.” How could I say no?
He understands that this involves time and patience. It won’t grow over night and it’s gonna be a long hot summer. He gets it. He also knows he has the ability to make someone’s life a little better with very little effort. All he has to do is grow his amazingly beautiful blonde hair. “I can do that mom. Not once but twice.”
Am I a proud mom? You bet I am, but look what I have to be proud of. Happy Birthday my boy. I am so proud of you.
Cindy Penkoff, mom of Jeffrey Penkoff

Thursday, May 29, 2008

Quiet Too Long....lol

Feeling better, of course I have all my doctors appointments within the next 2 weeks. Isn't that just the way? Like your car. Acts up until you take it to the garage. Oh well. The problem is the visuals. I have all my "stuff" under such great control, my Rheumy doesn't quite believe I have the Psoriasis that goes along with the arthritis. But, I'm a little too vain to let it go and "prove it" to him. I think I have enough spots to show without letting the world in on it.

Anyway, onto business. Girlfriend Generation the book just went global!!! Yeah, the ISBN number was approved and Lulu unleashed it to the world. You can now access it on all your favorite sites like Amazon. That was a little exciting and wierd all at the same time seeing that. Local sales are still going well. I have it in a couple of little places for local expossure.

The website, http://www.girlfriendgeneration.com/ is being updated daily with new merchandise. I LOVE the new wallets. No need for a purse if you are just running out. They are perfect and so much fun. And, I have just launched, testing really, the home party market. I have put together a fairly decent hostess and guest program. Have done one party and have a couple more booked. Things are looking good.

Add that to the PTA end of year dinner I am planning, the fundraiser for cubscouts, the campout for cubscouts and Jeffreys 10TH! birthday party, which is also a campout and life is busy. Jeffrey will be in 3 different camps this summer and hopefully a family vacation before he has knee surgery and then back to school. And we wonder why time flies. Mommy car service will be in full swing again this summer.

Such is life and yes it does go on, whether you contribute or not so have fun with it.

Sunday, April 27, 2008

We all have something

I was diagnosed with psoriatic arthritis about 5 years ago. Although I have lived with it for about 9 years. My psoriasis (the skin condition) flared up visually for the first time when my son was about 2 mths old. It wasn't a small thing either. Out of the blue my hands were like "hamburger meat", as my husband so nicely put it, and my face wasn't much better. I refused to leave the house. It was not long after that that I started having joint pain, stiffness and sore muscles. There are days when I can barely function, but, I try. Since psoriatic arthritis doesn't only effect your joints, but your muscles and internal organs, it confused many of my doctors as they were unfamiliar with the disease. I have had just about every test under the sun, in an attempt to diagnos my condition.
About a year and a half ago I had a muscle spasm that encompassed my entire mid-section and lasted about 30 minutes. When it was done I had to spend 2 days in bed, because I was so sore, and had pain that lasted in the area of my kidneys, for 3 months. That pain comes back on and off and last several weeks each time. I have been to all kinds of doctors to make sure that there is nothing wrong with my kidneys and have been told no. It is your arthritis attacking the muscles in that area. I have mixed feelings about that. The devil know vs the devil unknown sort of thing.
Many days I get up in the morning and the heel of my foot hurts almost too much to walk. Many days I feel like I got beat up. I get ear infections due to this an my nails are effected in big ways. I have lost numerous toe nails and my finger nails are extremely dry. Since appearance is very important to me, I have my nails done every 2 weeks. I have found after years of searching, products that I can use on my skin so that most people don't even know I have psoriasis. I have also managed to avoid medication, for I know once I start, I will never come off of them.
NO ONE knows I am sick unless I tell them. I like it that way.
Today is one of those days. I was on my feet all day yesterday outside, and today I am having a difficult time funtioning. EVERYTHING hurts.
The good news is, I still go out dancing with the girls, in 4 inch heels and go about my life. I refuse to give in. I can't yet. I just can't.
This is my life. I need to make it work.

Monday, March 24, 2008

Press Release

"Girlfriend Generation" A Positive Read


Bridgeport, CT (PressExposure) March 21, 2008 -- Cindy Penkoff, local mom, wife and business owner, has just released her first book; Girlfriend Generation. It's a little book that packs a huge punch. A local resident who grew up in Milford, Ct, she now resides in Trumbull with her husband and 9 year old son. She graduated from Joseph A Foran High School in 1981 and since has alternated between working for others and working for herself. In addition to authoring Girlfriend Generation, she is the owner/buyer/designer of the retail website of the same name; www.girlfriendgeneration.com Since she believes there is a reason for everything, we asked why now? Cindy indicated that this past year another friend had to endure the horrors of breast cancer. Although this is not the first time she and her family and friends had been exposed to cancer, it just seemed like the last straw. For years they had supported the American Cancer Society. Talking the talk and making donations when prompted. This time she said "let's really do something". They all agreed it was the right thing to do not just because it was their friend, but, because it made them feel useful instead of helpless. It was an expression of love and support that went to the next level. They ran fundraisers, made t-shirts, and became "The Girlfriends for Life" team. This experience culminated in and all day/night walk for the American Cancer Society and raised nearly $8000 in about 2 months. It was an amazing experience, and had stirred a tremendous amount of emotions and thoughts. Writing was her outlet. When asked to describe the book and what she hoped to accomplish she had no problem answering. "This book is an expression of love. Love for all the women in your life that you would consider a "Girlfriend". For me it is always important to personalized a gift as much as possible so I gave this book that ability. There are small appropriate areas where you can "fill in the blank" so to speak, which are meant to spark a memory, create a smile or make you laugh out loud. You also have a page in the front already designated to addressing it to that person. The recipient can also add her touch. I have included 50 pages of journal space in the back for notes and thoughts, whatever she wants. She can literally add to the book. It doesn't get more personal than that. The accomplishment part is easy. Making sure that the Girlfriends in your life know how important they are to you. I think if I had had this when I got married, each of my bridesmaids would have received one. I have already given one to each of my Girlfriends near and far." A self proclaimed control freak, Cindy also did the photo that appears on the front and back cover. You will not find an author bio, "This book isn't about me", and the dedication is in the back of the book instead of the front. "The dedication was very serious for me. I didn't want to start the book that way. I do think the dedication is beautiful and meaningful and just as important as everything else in the book. Trust me, when you read it, the placement will make sense." "Girlfriends are the charms of your life. We collect them for their meaning and beauty and create and heirloom uniquely our own." This book can currently be purchased by going to http://www.girlfriendgeneration.com or http://www.lulu.com item #2155279.

Thursday, February 28, 2008

GFG Newsletter Update

What Do Oprah's Guru's Say You Must Have In Your Wardrobe?
I have to tell you...I LOVE The "O". She's someone I can relate to on so many levels and she says it like it is. Just had to tell you that. That is not however what this is about. I was watching her show though when I got this from one of her stylist.
These are the things that should be in every womans closet. Yes they make them in all sizes to look good on every woman. Please don't be married to sizes ladies. Be married to looking and feeling good. Don't like to look at that number? Cut the damn tag out!!!!
A Trench Coat - get the best you can afford and go for a pop of color.
A Turtle neck - A couple actually; black and a white
A pair of black trousers - fit is everything. Invest in a great pair. They're worth it.
A Tunic Top - Turn any out fit up a notch. You will feel fabulous and comfy.
2 Pairs of Jeans - 1 White...YES WHITE that fit properly and a DARK denim. Skip the faded ones.
A black dress....notice I didn't say little black dress. Get the one that works for you.
Back to denim. This time a jacket, same as above. A white denim jacket is clean and crisp. Great look.
A black skirt. Again get the one that works for you. The one that works with your body type.
Invest in a nice cashmere sweater. They come in all kinds of weights now and are not that expensive anymore. Layer.
A stylish pair of flats. Skip the tennis shows for running errands and dress up your feet.
Lastly, a BIG bag. As I have said before, they are back in a big way. Check out our sellection. http://www.girlfriendgeneration.com/category/670939
What's Black and white and color all over?
Just about everything. Black and white will never go out of style and should always be a staple, but throw alot of color and you got it all covered. Red is smokin' this year.m Not just any red; THE RED. That perfect shade, either bright and beautiful or faded like your favorite jeans. Pink is here and not going anywhere any time soon. Tons of shades of pink. But really it's all good. Check out what we have going on in our handbag department and you will see what I mean. http://www.girlfriendgeneration.com/category/670939
Size Does Matter
TOTES....you have to have a tote. (What did you think I was talking about?) They hold lots of stuff, are easy to carry and a godsend if you have children. This is not your grandmothers tote. They are fashion fabulous. Every designer on the face of the earth is showing totes, like 3 to 1 on the rest of their bags. And trust me the other bags are not that small. Reality check time. We want to be able to function through our daily lives and look good doing it. http://www.girlfriendgeneration.com/category/670939
Sleek New Design
No it's not a car. But something that desperately needed a make-over. The wallet. The thing in our handbag that we all seem to hate. It never closes right, it's bulky and when you pull it out to pay for something you feel like your mother. Introducing the new metro-wallet. Slim, sleek, beautiful colors and textures and FUNCTIONAL. Holds pretty much everything you need for a normal day and if you want to just carry that and no handbag, it works. Perfect for drinks with the Girlfriends or movies with the kids. http://www.girlfriendgeneration.com/category/670943

That is it for the moment, but check back often and see what's going on with GFG.

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

1st Interview

As promised, my first interview. I hope you like it.




http://ladyinthespotlight.8m.net/whats_new_29.html

Sunday, February 17, 2008

Who do you miss.

I recently was sent one of those e-mails that ask you a bunch of questions and you must send it on to the people that you know so that they get to know you better, and they are suppose to do the same.

I always seem to do them, as I hate to be the one to break the chain. This one had an interesting question, simple really, but it stuck with me. It simply said "Who do you miss?". It caught me off guard a little, as I tend to be very sentimental (most people wouldn't believe that), so I try not to dwell on those things. Of course now I'm stuck with it in my head and in my heart.

Not really a bad thing I guess, as with those thoughts come memories and smiles and giggles and yes some tears.So I put this to you. Who do you miss? Think about them, send love to them and if at all possible, let them know.You may discover exactly who is missing you. :)

Friday, February 15, 2008

Friday...Here already?

It's Friday. I know most people like Friday, I'm not really one of them. This Friday is especially not great. See the kids are off of school ALL next week. Today is pretty much the end of what sanity I have left for 10 days.

No one ever told me that doing what I wanted to do, write a book, would be so stressful. It's suppose to reduce your stress isn't it? I just want everyone to like it. I put so much work into all of it, and it's important to me that women get it. So far those I have let read the finished copy do. It's not a big book, just one of those "gift" books but not mushy. It will also have a nice journal attached at the end.

Journalling.....why don't people do that for themselves any more. Blogging is cool, but, you don't neccessarily want to share everything with the world. I love the idea of a journal, where in 50 years my son can go back and read my thoughts, but mostly see my handwriting. There is something comforting about that. I know I always get a warm feeling when I see the handwriting of someone that I love.

For me my journal is like my digital camera. I have to have it with me all the time. When I have a thought/idea that needs to be remembered, I write it. If I don't forget it. My mind is a siv these days. My camera, absolutely neccessary. I get some of the coolest pictures when I least expect it. It is all about getting the moment from both of them. You should try it.

I'll be back. I have a great restarant for you all in NY.

Thursday, February 14, 2008

We Are Here X

Welcome, I am so glad you stopped in. I hope you will do so on a regular basis. Sharing is what we do. Being a good girlfriend depends on it. We are also respectful of ourselves and one another.

Girlfriends inthis day and age are so different from when I was younger. They mean so much more as well. I want to hear your thoughts on that, and anything else you think would be of interest to the girlfriends.

Need a little help with something, ask and see what we come up with. Visiting a new place and want to know where to eat, changing careers, relationships or locations and what some support. We might just be able to do that too.

My philosophy has always been, you never know until you try. So try us.

We're glad you came.

Cindy owner/buyer/writer for
www.girlfriendgeneration.com